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Making friends as an adult in Australia: what actually works
· 1 min read · getme team
Making friends after school or uni can feel awkward, but most people are keen for more connection.
Repetition beats one-offs
Friendships form from seeing the same people regularly. Join something weekly: a running club, social sport, trivia team, volunteering, a class.
Be the one who suggests a plan
"Want to grab a coffee after this next week?" is all it takes. Most people say yes.
Use your neighbourhood
Local markets, community gardens and council events are great places to meet people nearby.
Use getme for friends
Turn on friends in your profile, follow people with similar interests and comment on their posts. Friends on getme can message each other without matching. See how getme works.